#someone sent me money on cash app but i don't see it

[faeriemarie]

introducing my lifa app!!

so if you don't know what the lifa app is... here is my extremely confusing explanation. if you can't understand it, i don't blame you

the basics of my app:

The app is for pc, phone, ipad, and other electronic devices (or on paper in drs without smartphones)

It will automatically appear and it can not be deleted. I know everything there is to know about Lifa and I control the app with absolute ease.

If someone were to go on a device where the Lifa app is on, they wouldn’t be able to see it or tap on it at all. Only I can see it or use it and it is 100% real and 100% effective

The lifa app doesn’t take up ANY storage

Lifa knows exactly what I mean because it is connected to my subconscious mind. It knows what I mean exactly, and all intrusive thoughts are ignored

The lifa app doesn’t need wifi

I can do ANYTHING and I mean ANYTHING with Lifa, no restrictions, and nobody ever suspects that I’m using it

Nothing I search or watch on my lifa app is traceable by anyone but me (not even cell or wifi companies)

There are ZERO CONSEQUENCES to using Lifa and what decisions I make. Nothing goes wrong, everything happens how I expect it to, excluding the intrusive thoughts which are always ignored

No one is ever suspicious of the things I manifest and it’s like I’ve always had them (clothes, food, talents, etc. has always been there)

okay now for the features!!

lifa closet

Any item of clothing I choose from the catalog, script, or import a picture of will be sent to my closet, suitcase, or wherever I want

reality shifting

I can set a time and pick a reality to shift to. I will then shift during that exact time

reality check

I can check which reality I am in with the click of a button

scripter

I can script and write anything. Inserted images are HD, and PNG images remain transparent. I can insert infinite images and change the font’s color and style itself (same features as notes/notion/google docs but neater)

desired scenario

I can specifically script to describe my desired scenario. I can set the time and date to when the scenario happens. The scenario is exactly like how I want and even 1 trillion times better

manifestor

I can insert a picture or describe what I want to manifest. I can also manifest people by typing their name and Lifa will automatically recognize who they are. I can set the time and date to when you want that thing to manifest, and it will happen 100%.

skill increaser

Choose any skill I desire to have (I can also insert it by typing “cooking”). I can choose to master any skill and it will show up immediately. I can search any skill and increase on a scale of 1-100% mastery

motherlode (sims reference lol)

I can deliver/spawn money of any currency in my chosen form. (gift cards, bank acc, cash, etc.) I can choose from coins to bills. There is no limit amount of money or times to deliver it. I can deliver it how much and how many times I want. The money is 100% legal and valid, and passes all money detectors. The money has valid and legal coding, as if it had been made in factories. It still remains perfectly legal. I can choose to spawn the money in my purse, bottom of backpack, pockets, amazon, wallet, etc. The money spawns in 5 seconds. I can deliver/spawn as much money as I desire, there is no limit (even 50 million is 100% possible). There is 0% risk of money inflation

lifa credit card

The Lifa credit card has an infinite amount of money and can never go in debt. There is an infinite amount of money in all international currencies. The card is universal and 100% valid and legal. It can be used in any ATM and online store/game (could be recognized as any official credit card like eg. visa or ae). The money has no money or usage limit, and it can be used for anything, anytime. In ATM machines it appears that the card only has 1000€/$, but in the Lifa app it will be ∞ €/$. If the card gets lost, it will automatically disappear. The same happens if the card breaks, and Lifa will spawn a new card with the same exact info.  It will come inside a little gift box (that matches the app’s color scheme I desire) wherever I want. The card’s number and code (and other infos) are up to me or the universe but it's always 100% valid. The card lasts forever. There is 0% risk of money inflation

lifa bank account

The bank account feature is connected to the credit card feature. It’s almost like a normal bank acc. I can see all mytransactions. The amount of money never changes because it stays 100% infinite. I can change my money’s currency. I can also take money out of the card in my desired currency. I can customize the card’s design and I can spawn more cards. I can easily create more bank accounts too, they will all have infinite money. There is 0% risk of money inflation

lifa paypal/venmo/cashapp/etc.

It is 100% legal anywhere. It is exactly like the real paypal, but my Lifa bank account/card is registered. I can use it in all purchases that require paypal. I can login on the real paypal website with the Lifa paypal acc. When I first use the app I get to create a Lifa paypal account. The balance shows 1000€ / $ / £ but the money amount is infinite. There is 0% risk of money inflation

food delivery

If I insert a picture of a food item or search the catalog, Lifa will recognize. When I confirm, it will be sent to my ideal location. (i can pick the location). The food will be 100% fresh and new

boredom cure

Instantly provides me with inspiration to do something that is productive and beneficial to my overall well-being

create-a-person

I can design a person’s hair, body, face, etc., script their personality and choose their traits. It is set up like scripting and has different templates I can use. I can change skin tone, skin type, undertone, hair color, hair texture, eye color, etc. I can insert any pictures and they’ll be exactly how I want. When I insert a script of the person’s personality and behaviour, Lifa will recognize it. I can also script traits and the person’s backstory. I have to fill in each’s birth info (name, age, birthday, sign, blood type, etc) to my desire.  I can also choose the relationship between the people when I’m done creating them. Then I confirm and once I shift to my dr it will all be exactly like how I wanted and even 1 trillion times better. If I’m feeling lazy, I can select to let the universe fill in the gaps, and the universe will fill them like I wanted and even better

lifa messenger

I can text with anyone in the universe that I want. It feels completely real and all conversations are remembered. It’s like having online bestie because the people I text always get along with me, always respond, and actually care about me. We can also call and video chat. I am not actually communicating with someone from my reality and instead with the universe since everyone is part of the universe. It works exactly how I want it to

natal chart

I can select which life/reality’s natal chart I want to see. Lifa offers a personalized detailed description of my chart and personality. The chart is 100% accurate. I can also select to look at anyone’s natal chart. Lifa will show a list of everyone I know. It is divided in 5 categories (friends, family, acquaintances, classmates/coworkers, celebrities). The natal chart can also show compatibility

grade changer

Automatically makes me have good grades and changed all my past grades to A. My wrong test answers morph into correct test answers

ask-me-anything

I can ask anything and get the complete and 100% right answer. The questions can vary from asking where my lost tennis shoes are to what’s the answer to number 4 on my math homework. There is no limit to what can be asked and the answer given is always exactly what I need

feature adder

I can visualize and script more features and add them to Lifa with the feature adder. Lifa will add these features in 1 second and they will be 100% effective. Lifa also knows exactly what I mean, even if I script something wrong, so there are no surprises

lifaflix

A streaming site where I can watch shows that only exist in my dr (most of the time used for fame drs so i can see all the great acting projects i have been a part of). I can also watch my drs like tv shows.

lifatube

A video site set up like YouTube where I can watch anything from my dr. Things like fan edits, compilations of dr moments, my dr tiktoks, youtube videos made by my dr self and more. I can also watch memories/anything that happens from either a 3rd person point of view or 1st person

lifa socials

My lifa app has social media accounts from all my different realities that i can flip through, post from, dm with people from those realities, and go live (i can post anything i want on these social media sites and i’m immune to anything bad happening like leaking nudes, screenshots, hacking, or any other cybercrimes/bad things). My wr self even has their own account

[killmongerskeepermain]

Ghostface!Shuriri Headcanons

Surprise! Surprise! I got some headcanons for Ghostface!Shuriri for yall. Also I recreated a tag list so in case yall want to be tagged in anything, go ahead and fill out this form right here. ---> Taglist Form

Normal Lives

●👻● Outside her ghostface persona Riri is the perfect student. Still in college. 

●👻● Top of her class(of course), shows up on time, takes perfect notes, turns in work before the deadline, you name it. 

●👻● She doesn't mind doing work for her classmates. You want her to do your homework for you? It'll cost ya. (Her prices ain't cheap.)

●👻● Straight sneakerhead. Will make sure every outfit is tied together by the shoe.

●👻● Loves to go clubbing. Usually ends up with her finding a girl for her and Shuri for fuck around with if they're bored.

●👻● Despite her usually sticking to herself, no one truly has a problem with her. (If they do, RIP.)

●👻● Will talk her shit. Super sassy. Doesn't matter who you are or where ya live. Her slick mouth usually gets her in trouble. But ain't nobody gone jump with her partner a couple feet behind her.

●👻● Speaking of the partner, Shuri is the one who stays out of the limelight. 

●👻● She got away from Wakanda after T'Challa's passing. She believed he could be saved but that no one was trying hard enough. She dropped her duties as princess and went completely off the grid.

●👻● She spends most of her time in the lab under the house. Making new weapons, traps, home defenses. (She's still one of the smartest people on earth.) 

●👻● Also a sneakerhead. She's the one who likes to match shoes on a date.

●👻● Only goes clubbing so she doesn't have to hear Riri beg over and over again. 

●👻● Riri may be sassy but Shuri is MEAN. She does not give two fucks if she hurts your feelings. If you can't handle what she has to say then don't even look in her direction. 

●👻● If Riri has a problem with someone, so does Shuri. They're a package deal at this point. But if you're cool then you shouldn't have to worry about anything happening to you.

👻👻 "You know you was supposed to cash app me yesterday." Riri held a look of annoyance on her face as the football player fidgeted with his jacket. "Ah shit I forgot, $600 right?" She gave a small grin as she shook her head. "Nah, that was yesterday's price. It doubled since you forgot." His face fell and he bent down to mumble so his friends wouldn't hear. "$1200 is a little much don't you think?"

"Bet you won't forget again. I don't do this shit for free." She spat and he clenched his jaw. "What, are you gonna hit me pretty boy?" He steps closer to her before his eyes locked with another pair of brown orbs. "Is there a problem?" He quickly shook his head and sent Riri the money he owed before heading back to his friends. "I had it." The shorter girl grinned as she placed a kiss on Shuri's cheek. 

"Of course you did."

Behind The Mask

●👻● They don't just go around killing people for the hell of it. Their victims are usually people who did wrong by them or just don't deserve to live out their lives. Doing the world a favor.

●👻● Shuri uses a hunting knife with a sleek edge while Riri uses one with a ridged blade. 

●👻● Shuri is better when it comes to speed. She was training with her brother when he was alive. So if you manage to get away from Riri, you're not getting away from her. Loves the chase. Don't run. It only makes it more fun for her. "I love when they run."

●👻● Riri loves to play with their victims. Turns any chase into a game of cat and mouse. She also excels when it comes to stealth. She's the one who sneaks up on you when you're not looking. Can disappear in the blink of an eye. "Eyes on me ma."

●👻● Riri almost never has a messy kill. One clean cut is all it takes, hence her weapon of choice. Shuri on the other hand usually has some pent up aggression that she lets out during a kill. Not too much blood but just enough.

●👻● Won't let you see them in action. The only time was when you first met. But never again. The two agreed to keep everything ghostface related away from you. No matter how many times you ask. 

●👻● They did allow you to see them behind their ghostface personas only one time. The three of you drove to an abandoned building to show you how they hunt after endless begging. They even gave you a head start to run and hide. They made a bet on who would find you first with the loser making dinner. It didn't take long for Shuri to find you and to this day you and Riri wondered how she did it. 

👻👻 The only sound you heard was your own footsteps on the hard floor as you tried to be sneaky and find a good hiding spot. The building was long abandoned but still stood strong for a quick game of hide and seek. The two women gave you 10 minutes to hide and you had to admit your heart was racing. Quick, you say as you notice the cloak disappearing around the corner. You ducked under a nearby desk as one of them dragged into the room. You had a feeling it was Riri with how quiet they were. Even though they weren't going to hurt you, the thrill of it all sent jolts through your bones. When she left the room you took off down the hall with a wide grin. Time was almost up. Just before you could reach the doorway, a gloved hand grabbed your waist and you squealed. Looking up you saw Shuri take off her mask with a smirk. "How did you…..where did you come from!"

"What's the matter mamas? You look like you've seen a ghost."

When It Comes To You

●👻●Shuri is somewhat touch starved. So anytime you hug her from behind or snuggle up to her it makes her heart flutter. She eats it up.

●👻● Riri on the other hand loves having her hands on you. Whether it's holding your hand, grabbing your waist, or having you in her lap. 

●👻● They never let you go somewhere alone. If Riri can't be with you, Shuri is going and vice versa.

●👻● Riri is really big on PDA. Loves leaving small kisses and hickeys everywhere. Especially when someone hits on you while she's there. Shuri isn't into PDA like that but will not hesitate to pull you into a sloppy kiss if someone is bothering you. If it makes the other guy uncomfortable then it was worth it. 

●👻● Shuri gets jealous easily when it comes to you and Riri. That's where that sloppy kiss comes into play. And when you blush and hide your face in her neck, she's glaring at whoever is trying to shoot their shot. Also super territorial.

●👻● When you're alone they love to shower you in affection. Shuri loves running her fingers through your hair while Riri leaves trails of kisses along your shoulder. CUDDLE PUDDLE!

●👻● They will pamper you every chance they get when you're all together. Hugs? Kisses? Cuddles? Sex? They'll take care of you and all your needs. They will give you everything and anything you ask for.

●👻● Shuri teaches you and Riri Xhosa. You've learned that catching her off guard when switching languages flips a switch in her head. 

●👻● You're untouchable. No one in their right mind is going to lay a finger on you without lethal consequences. You want someone taken care of? Just say the word and they're gone.

●👻● They will not under any circumstances let you tag along for a kill. They would never put you through witnessing something as vile as them killing someone. Never again.

●👻● You definitely play with the voice changer. They have different ones but at this point you know who is who when they try to freak you out. 

👻👻 You tiptoed around the house trying to find your two girlfriend's with the small box in your hand. You found them on the couch watching Friday the 13th and grinned at the sight. Riri was lying under Shuri who had her arm over the girl's shoulder. You brought the box up to your lips and clicked the button. "Cuddling without me? How disrespectful." The two looked back at you before their laughter filled the room. "Girl, put that shit down and get over here." You sat down the voice changer and moved to lay your head down in Shuri's lap and your legs on Riri's. Though of course she couldn't keep her hands to herself and ended up between them. 🤭

[guarmommy]

Artists Beware!

I had an unfortunate interaction with a user known as privfab8 (aka Phoenix Peter) on Instagram and I'm here to show why they're a liar and scammer. Every artist should be aware of them.

Privfab8 contacted me on Sunday, August 11th, and asked if I was open to doing art commissions, to which I replied yes. They wanted me to draw a cartoon portrait of their best friend, which I happily agreed to do. They later asked me how long it would take to complete a drawing and how much it would cost. I told them that a finished drawing usually takes me 4 days and a commission like this would cost between 15 and 25 dollars. I sent privfab8 a link to my Artistree page detailing all my commission prices. Everything started off normal and friendly. I didn't see anything wrong with this person at first glance.

Privfab8 asked me how I received my payment. I replied, Paypal. They explained that they do Cash App and Venmo but couldn't use both accounts because of a "dispute" so they offered to send me a check via bank app instead. Innocently, I agreed.

However, after that, things went downhill.

Privfab8 proposed they would give me a 100-dollar check and demanded whatever amount I had left to their niece. At that moment, I felt betrayed. I did not consent to any of this. I only wanted to do a commission for someone and get paid the amount I posted. But the person I thought was good turned out to be a liar and tried to trick me by overpaying me and giving money to a family member, playing me for a fool.

I submitted the finished drawing regardless, to prove I was the only honest person in the situation. I permanently ended the interaction by telling privfab8 that I wouldn't accept any future commissions and I would not take the check. Then I blocked them.

To any new artist who wants to do commissions, please be aware of people like privfab8. If you start feeling weird about someone, trust your intuition and don't interact with them. Block them. Report them if need be. I have learned my lesson the hard way and I'm sharing this experience with all of you so you all don't repeat the mistakes I made.

[slexenskee]

hello!! i don’t know if you remember but i sent you an ask months ago about the best place to travel/has good food, and i’m happy to announce that i took the leap and my application for study abroad has been accepted! i am very nervous but your posts about traveling inspired me. do you have any tips for going to a foreign country?

Oh congrats that's awesome!!!

Ahh well tbh without knowing where you're going most of my travel tips will be a bit generic, and also, my trips are definitely never as long as a study abroad would be so the stuff I do for those might not apply either.

That being said, research if the country you're staying in will have your medication/skincare/beauty products etc., and stock up if they don't. You can easily buy things like new clothes and food, but if you have specific products you like they can be hard to come by! Medication especially, there is nothing worse than being sick in a foreign country where you can't read the language and don't know the names of any pharmacies. Also some countries won't let you take certain medication in, even prescribed - for ex, Japan doesn't let anyone take in ADHD meds. Not even with a prescription and a letter of medical necessity.

Know where/how to get to your country's embassy in the country you'll be in. This is mainly if you're not staying in the capital where the embassies normally are, and especially useful if you're going to be in the country for a while. Be prepared to just go directly if you run into any issues, because reaching out via phone or email is basically useless. They are usually quite helpful though. I had to reverse-course from Krabi and fly back to Bangkok to get an emergency passport in the middle of one of my trips - I thought it would be a stressful disaster, but I had it sorted out within a few hours. I couldn't find ANY information on what to do online, and they weren't answering their phones, so I just walked up and they let me cut the line as a citizen and then walked me through all the forms and stuff and had an emergency passport for me by lunch.

Depending on what kind of phone you have, you can download Airlo, which is a live saver for phone plans. It's data only, but it's a super simple to use and download e-sim where you can even get regional e-sims that will work in over 30+ countries. It's so helpful if you plan on traveling around.

And idk how old you are or where you're from, but having a credit card and debit account with access to online banking services is imperative. I've been able to travel to multiple countries without even using cash or a debit card and just using my credit card alone, but for a long stay that would be impossible. An online bank that you can transfer money/deposit money via taking a picture of a cheque on your phone is extremely convenient. Also having someone back home who has access to your accounts and can access them on your behalf is helpful. Depending on where you're going, you're probably also going to always need a lot of cash on hand. Europe is mostly card readers with tap to pay, but I've noticed SE Asia has a lot of 'cash only, or scan a qr-code and directly transfer to the merchant's bank account' merchants which is great if you live there but very inconvenient if you're a traveler who obviously doesn't have a bank account in the country. Japan is literally still COINS only in some places.

For transportation, look up what the taxi apps of choice are and make an account with them. Idk it's usually either Uber or Grab but sometimes I'll see a wildcard.

If the place you're going to has an entirely different written language, the Google Translate app is actually pretty darn spot on and the camera mode is very helpful. I've used it to translate my doujins before with difficult kanji 😂

That's all I can think of off the top of my head haha. Hope it helps!! And have fun!!

[cowboyjen68]

Regarding your most recent post: I don’t know if this is something you’d be interested in, but you could definitely ask for financial support. You’ve helped so many people and I know we’d love to give back, even if it’s just a bit. Everybody needs a hand up sometimes, especially with something as volatile as farm life

I appreciate this. I have been told by many friends to not always compare myself to others. I tend to think that there are certainly others more deserving and in more dire circumstances with me. I have health and more resources and the ability to work for more hours than others, and I definitely don't sit back on my butt and hope for the best.

My friends and family remind me that exactly zero people would be forced to give me financial support and anyone doing it would do so because they either were helped my me, appreciate my presence or see value in my lesbian focused positivity on social media and in real life. Working on social media and real life work helping those in my community does take time and energy that is unpaid. I would never stop doing any of it unless my need to take on another job/more paid hours robbed me of the ability to put in that effort.

Every time I get something in paypal or venmo from someone on line I am amazed and encouraged by the kindness. The stray cat I found got her vet bills paid in under 24 hours. Someone sent me a little towards my water heater and it allowed me to make a small first payment to the company without skimming some off my propane bill, which gives us heat.

Any time I can take on a little less paid work to write or answer asks and DM's or to assist someone in my community who needs a hand is really a bonus for me because it makes me happy to be able to do so.

My linktree has my venmo, paypal, cash app listed in it. My snail mail address is in my bio. Cards, letters etc are always welcome.

I truly appreciate the platform with which I have been provided to tell my experiences and to hear that of others. I am proud of the followings I have garnered because it is diverse and, in general, well behaved. My expectations of how I am received and how my followers interact is created by my real world experiences. I know on- line is not always the same but I strive for that same sort of environment where nuance exists. And where we understand that our experience might not be that of others but that does not prevent us from talking.

If you enjoy my content, if I have helped you, made you laugh or feel better about yourself or if you want and have the means to support lesbian positivity through my work here is my link tree with Cashapp, venmo, paypay.

Look for new merch in 2023. I don't make hardly any money on it but it does put the word Lesbian out into the world just a little more.

[boredgirlsclub]

So I just went to see this guy I've been talking to for over a year now long distance. I went alone, payed for everything the hotel, and flight and all and it didn't go well at all. The guy and I have been having communication issues, I have felt that being long distance that we are he should call, face time me more but he kept telling me to go visit him and how he would not put in effort to talk to me if I was not coming or booked a flight. So I booked a flight to see him feeling pressured because he told me he wasn't ever going to see or talk to me again and that he would block me....I expressed many times how anxious I was and overwhelmed with all of this but he assured me it would be okay and that we wouldn't just hookup, we would do other things and not just drink...so when I got there he was working and told me to continue to message him so that he knew I wasn't going out and meeting other guys so I did but still had a dating app downloaded on my phone as I am keeping my options open because the situation with him has been hard and hes not my boyfriend...anyway so while hes at work he tells me to get dressed up and ready to go out because we were going to go out for drinks and dinner. So I got all ready he came and brought the alcohol which I was confused about because I thought we were going out, he then said we were going to drink first then get dinner and i suggested sushi which we was down for so we drank the hotel tequila with a chaser and I ended up getting pretty drunk fast...All I remember after that was walking to get sushi and in the restaurant he asks me to pay and i was like ok..so then they try charging my card and it declines so then he pays but then asks if i can cash app him...the rest of the night was a blur and woke up with throw up all over the bed, he had left and I tried reaching out to him to discover I had been blocked. I was so anxious because he told me how he wouldn't leave me, how I didn't want to drink a lot especially not get blacked out but did...I tried calling him from private number and he finally unblocks me and messages me and goes "listen. I blocked you because you were talking to other men, that's so dirty, you were even trying to meet someone down here, I saw the dating app, the messages, I can't trust you, you really came here to hoe out, bye for good" then blocks me...I'm just so hurt he not only looked though my phone when I was drunk but sent himself money for the sushi while I payed for everything to go see him and waking up naked not remembering anything....The very reason I even had a dating app and was talking to other guys is because he doesn't treat me right and so I especially don't trust him...I could have died being blacked out

first, i’m so sorry this happened to you

second, there should be no hesitation in leaving this situation completely. don’t try to call text. don’t try to explain yourself. don’t reach out. like girl i love you…but i don’t know why you’re even entertaining this. this man has. no money. no manners. no basic human decency??? for your sanity and health, go.

i totally encourage you to look at other options. and raise your bar way (WAY) higher. before that, it might be beneficial to do some inner healing (maybe via therapy or journaling). truly consider: do you know your worth? why did you entertain this situation for so long — is it because of insecurities? what do you want out of a relationship (and be honest about everything you want!!! even if it seems like it’s a story book prince who cares)

totally feel free to message again 💗 sending love ur way

[sirensplayhouse]

Hey girl I need some advise/input on the situation I'm in please. So I just went to see this guy I've been talking to for over a year now long distance. I went alone, payed for everything the hotel, and flight and all and it didn't go well at all. The guy and I have been having communication issues, I have felt that being long distance that we are he should call, face time me more but he kept telling me to go visit him and how he would not put in effort to talk to me if I was not coming or booked a flight. So I booked a flight to see him feeling pressured because he told me he wasn't ever going to see or talk to me again and that he would block me....I expressed many times how anxious I was and overwhelmed with all of this but he assured me it would be okay and that we wouldn't just hookup, we would do other things and not just drink...so when I got there he was working and told me to continue to message him so that he knew I wasn't going out and meeting other guys so I did but still had a dating app downloaded on my phone as I am keeping my options open because the situation with him has been hard and hes not my boyfriend...anyway so while hes at work he tells me to get dressed up and ready to go out because we were going to go out for drinks and dinner. So I got all ready he came and brought the alcohol which I was confused about because I thought we were going out, he then said we were going to drink first then get dinner and i suggested sushi which we was down for so we drank the hotel tequila with a chaser and I ended up getting pretty drunk fast...All I remember after that was walking to get sushi and in the restaurant he asks me to pay and i was like ok..so then they try charging my card and it declines so then he pays but then asks if i can cash app him...the rest of the night was a blur and woke up with throw up all over the bed, he had left and I tried reaching out to him to discover I had been blocked. I was so anxious because he told me how he wouldn't leave me, how I didn't want to drink a lot especially not get blacked out but did...I tried calling him from private number and he finally unblocks me and messages me and goes "listen. I blocked you because you were talking to other men, that's so dirty, you were even trying to meet someone down here, I saw the dating app, the messages, I can't trust you, you really came here to hoe out, bye for good" then blocks me...I'm just so hurt he not only looked though my phone when I was drunk but sent himself money for the sushi while I payed for everything to go see him and waking up naked not remembering anything....The very reason I even had a dating app and was talking to other guys is because he doesn't treat me right and so I especially don't trust him...I could have died being blacked out. Why would he blame this on me when he knows how I feel...He also followed my mom, liked a family picture on Instagram after I was showing her him and she accidentally viewed his story while he still has me blocked and is ignoring me. Why would he do this...

firstly babes, i just wanna say i am deeply apologetic that this happened to you and that you didn’t deserve this AT ALL and i really hope you went and got tested or checked out after waking up the next morning.

second, i believe you can never really know a person but what they want you to know and i’m not tryna hear the “oh eiypo” or “you manifested this outcome” because you didn’t and it’s important you know and understand that. people can just be assholes and clearly that dude is one of the biggest ones walking this earth.

i truly hope you’re ok and you can reach out to me privately if you ever need to talk or just want to vent🫶🏾

[lovelylau]

Hey girl, I'm in need of some advise/input on the situation I'm in please. So I just went to see this guy I've been talking to for over a year now long distance. I went alone, payed for everything the hotel, and flight and all and it didn't go well at all. The guy and I have been having communication issues, I have felt that being long distance that we are he should call, face time me more but he kept telling me to go visit him and how he would not put in effort to talk to me if I was not coming or booked a flight. So I booked a flight to see him feeling pressured because he told me he wasn't ever going to see or talk to me again and that he would block me....I expressed many times how anxious I was and overwhelmed with all of this but he assured me it would be okay and that we wouldn't just hookup, we would do other things and not just drink...so when I got there he was working and told me to continue to message him so that he knew I wasn't going out and meeting other guys so I did but still had a dating app downloaded on my phone as I am keeping my options open because the situation with him has been hard and hes not my boyfriend...anyway so while hes at work he tells me to get dressed up and ready to go out because we were going to go out for drinks and dinner. So I got all ready he came and brought the alcohol which I was confused about because I thought we were going out, he then said we were going to drink first then get dinner and i suggested sushi which we was down for so we drank the hotel tequila with a chaser and I ended up getting pretty drunk fast...All I remember after that was walking to get sushi and in the restaurant he asks me to pay and i was like ok..so then they try charging my card and it declines so then he pays but then asks if i can cash app him...the rest of the night was a blur and woke up with throw up all over the bed, he had left and I tried reaching out to him to discover I had been blocked. I was so anxious because he told me how he wouldn't leave me, how I didn't want to drink a lot especially not get blacked out but did...I tried calling him from private number and he finally unblocks me and messages me and goes "listen. I blocked you because you were talking to other men, that's so dirty, you were even trying to meet someone down here, I saw the dating app, the messages, I can't trust you, you really came here to hoe out, bye for good" then blocks me...I'm just so hurt he not only looked though my phone when I was drunk but sent himself money for the sushi while I payed for everything to go see him and waking up naked not remembering anything....The very reason I even had a dating app and was talking to other guys is because he doesn't treat me right and so I especially don't trust him...I could have died being blacked out. Why would he blame this on me when he knows how I feel...He also followed my mom, liked a family picture on Instagram after I was showing her him and she accidentally viewed his story while he still has me blocked and is ignoring me. Why would he do this...

Girl, block that man and never speak of him again. I know it's easier said than done but you deserve better, i mean everyone deserves better than him... that's for sure.

Also, why would you pay to see a man you're not even in a relationship with ? If he wanted to see you, he woudl've paid for the flight. Never spend money on men, they should spend it on you.

[tasteslike-cherry]

So I just went to see this guy I've been talking to for over a year now long distance. I went alone, payed for everything the hotel, and flight and all and it didn't go well at all. The guy and I have been having communication issues, I have felt that being long distance that we are he should call, face time me more but he kept telling me to go visit him and how he would not put in effort to talk to me if I was not coming or booked a flight. So I booked a flight to see him feeling pressured because he told me he wasn't ever going to see or talk to me again and that he would block me....I expressed many times how anxious I was and overwhelmed with all of this but he assured me it would be okay and that we wouldn't just hookup, we would do other things and not just drink...so when I got there he was working and told me to continue to message him so that he knew I wasn't going out and meeting other guys so I did but still had a dating app downloaded on my phone as I am keeping my options open because the situation with him has been hard and hes not my boyfriend...anyway so while hes at work he tells me to get dressed up and ready to go out because we were going to go out for drinks and dinner. So I got all ready he came and brought the alcohol which I was confused about because I thought we were going out, he then said we were going to drink first then get dinner and i suggested sushi which we was down for so we drank the hotel tequila with a chaser and I ended up getting pretty drunk fast...All I remember after that was walking to get sushi and in the restaurant he asks me to pay and i was like ok..so then they try charging my card and it declines so then he pays but then asks if i can cash app him...the rest of the night was a blur and woke up with throw up all over the bed, he had left and I tried reaching out to him to discover I had been blocked. I was so anxious because he told me how he wouldn't leave me, how I didn't want to drink a lot especially not get blacked out but did...I tried calling him from private number and he finally unblocks me and messages me and goes "listen. I blocked you because you were talking to other men, that's so dirty, you were even trying to meet someone down here, I saw the dating app, the messages, I can't trust you, you really came here to hoe out, bye for good" then blocks me...I'm just so hurt he not only looked though my phone when I was drunk but sent himself money for the sushi while I payed for everything to go see him and waking up naked not remembering anything....The very reason I even had a dating app and was talking to other guys is because he doesn't treat me right and so I especially don't trust him...I could have died being blacked out. Why would he blame this on me when he knows how I feel...He also followed my mom, liked a family picture on Instagram after I was showing her him and she accidentally viewed his story while he still has me blocked and is ignoring me. Why would he do this...

first of all, I want to give you the biggest hug in the world. this guy is despicable and you deserve so so so much better than that.

to answer your question, I honestly don’t know. I’m not a tarot reader or psychic so I can’t look into that for you, but what I can tell you is you can manifest better men in your life if that’s the route you want to take. my dm’s are open if you want to talk. again, my heart breaks for you, I’m so sorry you had to experience that.

[tooedgyforbrunch]

So I just went to see this guy I've been talking to for over a year now long distance. I went alone, payed for everything the hotel, and flight and all and it didn't go well at all. The guy and I have been having communication issues, I have felt that being long distance that we are he should call, face time me more but he kept telling me to go visit him and how he would not put in effort to talk to me if I was not coming or booked a flight. So I booked a flight to see him feeling pressured because he told me he wasn't ever going to see or talk to me again and that he would block me....I expressed many times how anxious I was and overwhelmed with all of this but he assured me it would be okay and that we wouldn't just hookup, we would do other things and not just drink...so when I got there he was working and told me to continue to message him so that he knew I wasn't going out and meeting other guys so I did but still had a dating app downloaded on my phone as I am keeping my options open because the situation with him has been hard and hes not my boyfriend...anyway so while hes at work he tells me to get dressed up and ready to go out because we were going to go out for drinks and dinner. So I got all ready he came and brought the alcohol which I was confused about because I thought we were going out, he then said we were going to drink first then get dinner and i suggested sushi which we was down for so we drank the hotel tequila with a chaser and I ended up getting pretty drunk fast...All I remember after that was walking to get sushi and in the restaurant he asks me to pay and i was like ok..so then they try charging my card and it declines so then he pays but then asks if i can cash app him...the rest of the night was a blur and woke up with throw up all over the bed, he had left and I tried reaching out to him to discover I had been blocked. I was so anxious because he told me how he wouldn't leave me, how I didn't want to drink a lot especially not get blacked out but did...I tried calling him from private number and he finally unblocks me and messages me and goes "listen. I blocked you because you were talking to other men, that's so dirty, you were even trying to meet someone down here, I saw the dating app, the messages, I can't trust you, you really came here to hoe out, bye for good" then blocks me...I'm just so hurt he not only looked though my phone when I was drunk but sent himself money for the sushi while I payed for everything to go see him and waking up naked not remembering anything....The very reason I even had a dating app and was talking to other guys is because he doesn't treat me right and so I especially don't trust him...I could have died being blacked out

I’ve seen this question posed before to another tumblr user a month ago and I thought their response was a bit harsh. I don’t know you personally, and I’m in no position to give out relationship advise especially since I don’t deem myself “very experienced” I will say tho the one thing I’ve learned from my relationship is that “if he wanted to he would”. If a man likes you you’ll know, if he doesn’t you’ll be very confused. Take this as a learning experience, you don’t know what you don’t know and in this case you can chalk it up to ignorance. In the future you’ll know better and you’ll be able to spot the signs quicker.

[amnotaqueen]

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So, now he has tried to clarify his calling our son fat. What he says now is that he actually means that our son has "no muscle." On what planet do you call a child fat because you think they need to build muscle? What sense does it make to discourage or prevent a child from eating and expect them to build muscle because of it? How does he think calorie restriction will build muscle? Why does he even expect a 7 year old boy to have a muscular build? I told him that if he wants our son to build muscle, the thing to do is to have him eat more protein. But he is the type of father who thinks that the men and adults get to eat lots of meat, but the children don't get any meat, or get only a sliver. So many times my son has asked for more meat, but he acts like all the meat is intended for him.

He talks like he thinks our son should act and think like an adult. Apparently, he thinks our son should look like an adult as well. My son made a mess eating at the table the other day, and my husband scolded him telling him, "You eat like a child!" Ummmm. Yeah. He is a child actually. And I don't know of any other 7 year old with a grown man physique.

A brother gave our son his old iPad. My husband set it up for him. I noticed that the messenger App on the iPad had notifications. When I opened the App, I saw that it was my husband's Facebook messenger account. I looked through some of his messages. He stays in contact with his friends and family in Nigeria. Some of them often ask for money. These are the Jehovah's Witness Nigerians that I met when I visited Nigeria. These are the ones who were aware that my husband had a girlfriend and was planning to discard me.

Not one of my Jehovah's Witness Nigerian brothers or sisters reached out to me (I also had Facebook account) to warn me or notify me. Not one of them did what we are taught to do. If someone is going down a scripturally immoral path leading to serious sin, they should be encouraged to seek help from the elders. If they do not, those who know should report it to the elders. This helps keep the person from committing serious sin and it keeps the congregation clean. My Nigerian brothers and sisters failed to do this.

They apparently opted to protect their beloved friend, knowing he was doing wrong. They may have tried to talk to him themselves to discourage him. However, these types of things should be reported to the elders so they can do their job, which is to help those who are spiritually weak, counsel, correct and discipline if necessary.

I know why some of them did not do what they should have done. My husband is in a position to send them money. They would not want to do anything that might cause him not to want to send them money.

My husband sends money to Nigeria without my knowledge. He has done this for years. I saw evidence on the ipad. He was quick to get separate bank accounts early in our marriage. I saw messages he sent to one Nigerian woman, seemed to be a Jehovah's Witness too, telling her how bad a wife I was. He told her that I didn't want him to carry $20 in his wallet, so that's why he opened a separate account.

He bent the truth into a lie. What happened was that I did see $20 in his wallet, and I asked why he could have spending cash but did not ever give me any spending cash. I never said he shouldn't have cash on him. My point was that I too should be allowed to have some extra spending cash. He didn't like that. He liked getting cash whenever he wanted to get cash for personal wants but didn't want me to get any cash to spend personally.

He also didn't want me to be keeping tabs on what he was doing with his money (not our money). Unbeknownst to me, he would begin sending money to Nigeria and he had no desire to discuss with me about any of it. This woman he lied to about me, was so sympathetic towards him. They talked negatively about me and American women in general. She expressed how sorry she was that he had to put up with such an unsubmissive wife.

He even told her that I had refused to have anymore children with him, which she thought was terrible of me. The fact is, we had so many problems when we got married that I stayed on birth control hoping we could sort through our problems before having a child. A couple years went by and we still had problems. My husband, of course, just wanted to have children, he didn't care about working on our problems. Being a newlywed, petrified at the prospect of a failed marriage especially so soon after being married, I agreed to get off birth control and got pregnant right away with our son. I thought, being pregnant with his child, having a child might cause him to treat me better, kinder. It absolutely did not. Before the pregnancy was bad, during the pregnancy was bad, and after the pregnancy it was still bad.

So, when he was talking about having another child, I thought he was crazy. Why should we bring another child into this nightmare of a family? Why was he thinking about another child, but not about fixing our relationship? My position was, fix the relationship first, then expand the family. Of course, he punished me for my stance. He did what narcs do, he bullied and emotionally abused me to get what he wanted. I just wanted to have a peaceful, loving family. I wanted us all to be a happy, Christian family. So, again, I did what I could to bring about peace, which was to get off birth control to try to conceive. I didn't know what narcissism was at that point in time. I had no clue what I was dealing with. I didn't know what else to do but to try to regain peace. So, I got off birth control.

Thankfully, I did not get pregnant again after years of being off birth control. Thank God. I'm glad not to share another child with him. Family life with him is misery. It is already hard on my son. We don't need anymore children. Because I didn't get pregnant again, he deluded himself into thinking that I lied to him and kept using birth control, thereby not giving him anymore children. Truth is, I was weak and dumb and did get off birth control. I simply did not get pregnant again. It is a blessing.

So, he lied to his Nigerian female friend. She too was looking for him to give her some money as she was trying to get married. So she said something like, 'I'm so sorry you have an awful wife. Those American women are not how the Bible says women should be...Can I have $50?'

[whyareweallawakerightnow]

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Yesterday was annoying. Im trying hard to not let it but ut is. Its annoying. I did go to lunch with my nephew and he did make me smile. Im suppose to watch him later so we'll see if he behaves.

I took pics of him and I and posted them on Facebook, he liked the post pretty early in the morning for him. I guess he's still not sleeping. That either means something or someone is keeping him up. I just can't think about it. It makes me cringe.

I did request money from him on cash app for Myras food and said in the caption "for mj food" then he sends me a message saying 'Lol does mrs myra need food?" I'm like ???????? Duh? I just said 'Yep.' He then says "okie dokie, sent it" I say "thanks"

That was it. That was all.

Im really trying this law of attraction thing where I remove my energy from him, to choose happiness, I keep telling myself I'm not going to let this sink me. Truth is tho, it might be. Im trying hard not to let it tho.

I did unfollow him on Facebook but I still got a notification that he posted something. I was annoyed. My friends say I need to unfriend him. It would probably make it easier but I just don't have the heart right now. Maybe I will as time goes on.

I just really hate the way this feels, i mean I know it's supposed to feel this way but I just didn't think this would happen. I guess I'm just dumb in that way. I just thought he would miss me and he hasn't. That's a gut punch.

All I can do is love myself and myra through it. As best I can. This is just really hard.

[theereina]

So I just went to see this guy I've been talking to for over a year now long distance. I went alone, payed for everything the hotel, and flight and all and it didn't go well at all. The guy and I have been having communication issues, I have felt that being long distance that we are he should call, face time me more but he kept telling me to go visit him and how he would not put in effort to talk to me if I was not coming or booked a flight. So I booked a flight to see him feeling pressured because he told me he wasn't ever going to see or talk to me again and that he would block me....I expressed many times how anxious I was and overwhelmed with all of this but he assured me it would be okay and that we wouldn't just hookup, we would do other things and not just drink...so when I got there he was working and told me to continue to message him so that he knew I wasn't going out and meeting other guys so I did but still had a dating app downloaded on my phone as I am keeping my options open because the situation with him has been hard and hes not my boyfriend...anyway so while hes at work he tells me to get dressed up and ready to go out because we were going to go out for drinks and dinner. So I got all ready he came and brought the alcohol which I was confused about because I thought we were going out, he then said we were going to drink first then get dinner and i suggested sushi which we was down for so we drank the hotel tequila with a chaser and I ended up getting pretty drunk fast...All I remember after that was walking to get sushi and in the restaurant he asks me to pay and i was like ok..so then they try charging my card and it declines so then he pays but then asks if i can cash app him...the rest of the night was a blur and woke up with throw up all over the bed, he had left and I tried reaching out to him to discover I had been blocked. I was so anxious because he told me how he wouldn't leave me, how I didn't want to drink a lot especially not get blacked out but did...I tried calling him from private number and he finally unblocks me and messages me and goes "listen. I blocked you because you were talking to other men, that's so dirty, you were even trying to meet someone down here, I saw the dating app, the messages, I can't trust you, you really came here to hoe out, bye for good" then blocks me...I'm just so hurt he not only looked though my phone when I was drunk but sent himself money for the sushi while I payed for everything to go see him and waking up naked not remembering anything....The very reason I even had a dating app and was talking to other guys is because he doesn't treat me right and so I especially don't trust him...I could have died being blacked out

Dear Anonymous,

I would first like to say, "Don't beat yourself up about this."

Allow this to be your lesson on how important direct/clear communication is in any relationship. This can be in romantic or platonic relationships. You admitted to having issues with communication before the trip. You also said he pressured you to come to him but has he ever made an effort to come to see you? There seems to be more than a communication issue. He seems to be narcissistic or manipulative based on the ultimatum he gave you. You admitted that he did not treat you right. This should have been your biggest reason not to take this trip. If he didn't treat you right before, what honestly would be different then?

To be honest, I don't want to make assumptions, but I think you missed the red flags based on "hope". It was a hope that this relationship would work or become something. You were telling yourself the whole time that it wasn't right or something was wrong. Next time, take a breath and listen to your gut. As a woman, you have instincts for a reason.

Regardless of what he said, it almost seemed as if that was his plan from the beginning. From what you said, his actions did not indicate someone who wanted to pursue a "romantic" relationship. He seemed to only want to have "fun". His finding the dating apps and messages may have just been the ammo he needed to leave. You paid for an entire trip to see him, and he still expected you to pay for dinner when he asked you out. He wanted you there for him to show effort, but he didn't. Something seems very off to me.

I don't know how clear you two were about it not being a relationship. Did you discuss the boundaries or the type of relationship you two were partaking in? This could have been one of the biggest parts of the communication issue. Neither of you knew the dynamic of this relationship. I don't want to be harsh, but it doesn't seem like a relationship would have worked. You did not trust him; he obviously did not trust you. You two didn't seem to know each other too well. Yes, I understand long-distance relationships have limits. I just think that a lot more should have been communicated and worked out before this trip.

However, that doesn't give him the right to do any of those things to you. Your feelings are very valid in that situation. Waking up naked and afraid isn't something I would wish on anyone. I'm sorry that happened to you. You deserved better. He could have simply just left and told you why the next morning.

I hope you see this post. Also, I hope it makes sense. To Anonymous, feel free to message me again if I missed some things or if you want clarification. Tell me if I helped, as this is my first inbox like this.

Remember: be honest, communicate clearly, set and establish boundaries, listen to your intuition, and stay safe!

XOXO, Reina

[agentkikirogers]

work issues// long ass post

I recently found out that I haven't been putting credit/debit codes in the finance app at work for like 6 months now.

So if i get $50 dollars that a customer paid with card, it says in the system that i have 50 DOLLARS in my drawer. So, when I end up making a deposit, I don't have that 50.

When I found out my boss and supervisor say that is not it because they "checked" but how if I never put it in the app. I asked what the think happened and they either 1. imply i stole the money or 2 my sister did (she's not stupid) or that i passed out the wrong change numerous times. I'm not going to pass out 20 or 40 dollars back instead of 7. Then one day I asked my boss again and he said Internal Affairs will be involved if I dont pay. This was around October/November.

So, I went on Reddit asking for advice. They said don't pay. That my boss was trying to scare me and there was no such thing for internal affairs for our place employment. I called five different people from Union and they couldn't help because I'm not in the union I guess? Idk how so they couldnt help.

So yesterday the supervisor shows up to count. I told her that I was supposed to have a signed paper stating that I owed 100.60 . Which she didn't and only sent an email that wasn't even a official count, nor was it report in the first place. So she got huffy and called the boss. Then got off the phone and said that the informed request was if she counted the drawer. So I'm like fine count it.I go to the other chair across the room and eat my breakfast watching her occasionally. She finishes it.

Offers for me to count, I'm dumb so I told her I believed her. So she goes on the computer again. ( after talking about using fake money orders (we have to put them in areas for customers to see or take and then report them to the cops. )

She tells me i owe 65(wait i thought it was 100) and that if i reject the payment tom sign a informed consent form. She also said if I wanted to pay that I can pay and we can forget this ever happened. Okay is it just me or is that really suspicious?

So my dumbass paid because I was scared and didnt know what to do and she gave me my change back and then left. So anyway during this she said, "okay we can act like this never happened."UM red flag much? then later she left. Sigh. I'm just... DONE.

BUT once of the nicest employees from a different office gave me a contact number of someone a day before my supervisor came and she called me today on Thursday which it was too late but anyway. She told me it was red flags and I shouldnt have to pay.

So I got everything possible to put together and scanned into pdfs. I get off work at 3 and was on the phone trying to call someone from accounting help desk again. I wanted to see if they could print off all the reports of my drawer counts that were used to determine my supposed drawer shortage.

The first one after 55 minutes said I couldn’t access them so she couldn’t tell me them and ended up hanging up on me. Then wrote a report saying I wanted the previous worker’s drawer count reports. Which is NOT what I asked for. So I tried to call accounting again after 6 times I finally got someone and they said that there were only 2 reports on in 2022 and one that was this week (2/23/23).

After all of that, only having two official reports it seemed like a let down to help the questions I have about this issue.Also is it normal policy to put the total of the customer’s purchase in a separate envelope instead of the cash drawer? Seems weird.

[cyanocitta-blattidae]

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